In the times we are living today, all of us have (and are
surrounded with) opinions about everything and anything!
The fact that anyone and everyone is welcome to voice out
their views, opinions, experiences is a great revolution and an amazing change
in the times of 2020!
As long as it’s on contemporary, political, economic issues
etc. – opinions are welcome and these days any topic is pretty debatable and
quite constructive as well.
But when it comes as one’s opinions on an individual –
behavior, character, background, class, color etc. – it takes a different angle
altogether and why not?
To be honest, I have witnessed how such judge mental views
can hamper anyone be it you or me for that matter specially when the individual
is hardly known to the specific person.
It affects in a way – that sometimes people lose their
qualities just because they are judged by people i.e. society!
Sometimes people give up the things that make them unique
just because “society” judged/didn’t find them worthy enough.
And sometimes, people end up giving up their existence
because they are so affected by the society – societal norms and pressure!
They succumbed not because they were weak – but just
because those people had a heart to understand the “so called societal norms”.
But tell me something what if we ask some questions to
ourselves rather than being affected by all of that – (answer lies within us)
Why are we so affected by people being judgmental of us?
Why do we let it affect us so bad that either we self-doubt
ourselves or retaliate?
Why do we give someone that much power over us to dictate us?
Overrule us?
Why do we have to give such people that much of importance?
Why does someone else has that authority to tell us how we
are and how we aren’t?
Why are such people are even being heard at the first
place?
Aren’t we capable enough to understand ourselves what’s
good for us and what’s not?
Aren’t we mindful enough to process only the positivity and
not the negativity?
Aren’t we educated enough to know that we don’t need these
kinds of validations from anyone – mind you anyone but ourselves or the people
who are our own!?
Why to give such beautiful powers to people who aren’t
worth even a dime?
They say, what you give power – has power over
you!
THINK – why to give that power to
someone who isn’t worth even a dime forget anything else!
In this beautiful life – if we don’t negate
these kinds, what are we actually focusing on?
Breathe Positivity – Exhale Negativity!
Love & Light To All!
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